Baby’s First Pola Festival 19


When I looked back on my blog post from Pola 2014, I remembered how tempted I was to buy one of the very cute wooden bulls on wheels (for children) being sold in the market. This year was my baby’s first Pola so, even though he is too small to play Pola or understand the festival, we bought Rohan his first wooden bull.

clay bulls pink and orange

Pola is a two-day Maharashtrian festival which thanks the hard-working bulls who plough the fields. The farmers in India still rely heavily on bull-power and Pola the bull’s day off. Bulls play a vital role in the production of the food we, and very soon baby, eat. I have seen them myself, in pairs, ploughing the field and pulling wooden carts, every time we drive out of the city and into rural Maharashtra.

pola market

market bull

bulls wooden colourful

On the first day of Pola (big Pola), bullocks are given a bath, decorated by the farmers and worshiped. On the second day of Pola (little Pola) the children decorate and race their wooden bulls on wheels. My husband has really fond childhood memories of this festival and I was really looking forward to seeing him celebrate Pola with our son. Sadly, he has to go away for work during Pola.

On the evening of Big Pola, my mother-in-law, Sammy, Rohan and I went to the market to pick up Rohan’s first wooden bull. The market was buzzing with tiny excited people and tiny wooden bulls for sale. We chose a very small wooden bull for our very small baby.

lovely market

 

colourful india

Driving home, dusk falling, we were lucky enough to see a pair real bulls dressed horn to hoof in colourful decorations. They were standing in front of a woman in a green saree, she held a large silver tray with a little flame, performing a Pola ritual.

 

Can you tell that someone is teething?

pola bulls rainbow

On the second day of Pola, we were out and about and came across a Pola competition. Twenty or so children were dressed up in their finest traditional Indian clothes, dragging their bulls behind them. The wooden bulls decorated with garlands, strings of shells and all sorts of shiny things. One little boy was upset that one of the wheels had fallen off of his bull, another asked us for some cash.

My friend brought her son around in the evening to show us the bull he has masterfully decorated, and Rohan showed them his. Both boys received 100 rupees. Rohan enjoyed looking at the bright colours of his first wooden bull (something for this sentimental mummy to keep forever).

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How could you celebrate Pola with your kids?

I see this festival as a lovely opportunity for children to learn about agriculture as well as having a lot of fun. I have thought about how Rohan can get the most out of this festival in the future, and maybe you want to celebrate it with your children next year. Here are some of the ways you could celebrate Pola:

  • Pola celebrates the hard-working bulls who plough the fields with crops that feed us. Discuss with your children how the food where you live produced compared to other places in the world.
  • Visit a farm and see how crops are planted and harvested.
  • If you live outside of Maharashtra, markets selling wooden bulls won’t pop up just before Pola like they do here. Pull along wooden toys are available online (US, UK, India). Or you could be really creative and make one with your child and decorate it together!
  • Alternatively, draw and decorate bulls on paper.
  • Gather a group of your child’s friends together and have a three-legged races (where two children have their leg tied to the other, creating three legs). Bullocks plough the fields in pairs.
  • Pola, for children, is similar to Halloween in the sense they dress up and go door to door, showing off their decorated bulls (costumes) in exchange for treats.
  • Have a Pola party where you can have a bull decorating competition with prizes!

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About Lauren Mokasdar

Lauren fell in love on the internet, took a one way flight from England, got married & started a new life & bicultural family in India. She writes about finding happiness & balance between two very different worlds, when her baby takes a nap.


19 thoughts on “Baby’s First Pola Festival

  • Nicola

    What a lovely post! Makes me wish I lived in India, with a small child for whom to buy a little wooden bull.

      • Nicola

        I know India is vast and diverse, and that Pola is not universal; I have spent time in India. I think Lauren will understand what I meant by my comment.

      • Lauren Mokasdar Post author

        Thank you so much, Nicola! I can’t take all the credit, some of them were taken by my little sister. I have been taking more photos in general since I got back to India, I used to use a bulky camera but now I have a phone with a pretty good camera. I had to upgrade my phone so I could take and send photos of Rohan to my family in England easily. It’s also worked out well for blogging too :D. I hope you are well xx

  • Justyna

    Its amazing that different parts of India have different festivals. In New Delhi my Fiance don’t celebrate Pola, but i love all those colors wooden bulls, and its so great that you celebrate it with Rohan even if he don’t understand it to much for now. Its like a Christmas, when you celebrate it even if your kid is to small. Nice to see you posting again, Lauren! 🙂

  • friend

    @Lauren

    In your pic with rohan u look like a hill women who tie their babies On their bodies and go to work in the fields. I have been wanting to ask these kind of wraps must be restricting for the babies and it also puts pressure on the parents shoulders.

    Btw at this stage babies are very fond of biting fingers and knuckles so beware.

    • Lauren Mokasdar Post author

      Hi friend,
      Rohan has been in this wrap since birth, it’s his happy place. He doesn’t find it restrictive at all, seeing as he was in a much snugger place only 4 months ago. The way the wrap is, well, wrapped, means his weight is evenly distributed and it’s so comfortable and much easier to carry him this way (not to mention hands free!)!

      There are so many ‘babywearing’ benefits, including a content baby and an increased milk supply. If I had to give a single piece of advice to expectant mothers it would be to get a wrap! I know it’s not for everyone but for me it’s been a God send!

      Here is an interesting article, if you’re interested.

      http://www.askdrsears.com/topics/health-concerns/fussy-baby/baby-wearing/benefits-babywearing

      Hope you are well 🙂

  • adinamarquesa

    I have been reading your blog for quite a while now, and have enjoyed sharing your process of settling in a new culture. I am also married to an Indian, and even though our choices are quite different from yours, as we are planning to settle in Europe, I can relate to many of your posts. Congratulations for the little one, he is absolutely adorable! And please do keep up the good work.

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